Empathy could be seen as the ability to allow, somehow, to feel what someone else is feeling, as if it were tuning. Although apparently it would not be an exclusive attribute of human beings, animals and plants also have this ability to perceive the feel and be affected by it, be concerned of the same species or not.
It can be considered to empathy as a positive attribute, as long as it is aware and know how to handle it, because it can influence us in some way with feelings that are not ours.
It is a toll usually exploited, more than nothing, by those dedicated to dealing with people, psychologists, therapists, doctors, etc.
Although it is not a proper gift of a few, there are those who have most developed their ability to experience feelings of others as their own.
It can be considered to empathy as a positive attribute, as long as it is aware and know how to handle it, because it can influence us in some way with feelings that are not ours.
It is a toll usually exploited, more than nothing, by those dedicated to dealing with people, psychologists, therapists, doctors, etc.
Although it is not a proper gift of a few, there are those who have most developed their ability to experience feelings of others as their own.
In general, and despite this ability have been scientifically identified, not too much information is provided, so that people can learn more about themselves, their abilities and feelings.
It often happens that a person begins to experience discomfort for no apparent reason, and without knowing that it could be an influence that would have captured unconsciously from someone else, same for feelings of joy, anxiety or worry.
Those who are too sensitive to feelings of others, can pass very bad, if they learn not to know how it works and consciously exercise dominion making of this a tool to help improve human relations, and that eventually would better understand how some people proceed.
The most common is that empathy occurs unconsciously with deplorable results, where people are infected with feelings of anger, ire and dissatisfaction, very easily with only transit through places where unrest is common, such as, nursing homes, offices public, banks, driving, or through the most effective generators of artificial feelings as is the media.
Some people hold the belief that accompany the feeling of sadness saddening much or more than those who feel that regret, offers something, help in something. This is, of course, very foolish, but deeply rooted in social customs, they consider this attitude in good manners or as an act of humanity from someone sensitive.
If there is a precious attribute to re-discover, explore and exploit that is empathy. From time people, as most responsible for the fate of the world, begin to "tune" with high fidelity and consciousness, all relationships will take place at a higher level of comprehension, compassion and understanding.
One might consider empathy as the inner teacher who draws on a wide range of emotions and feelings in a continuous free exchange and which evidence the fact that there are no gaps and that despite being circumscribed and physically limited us we move in a world where there is no empty space and that, somehow, interconnects us to all subtly and increasingly imperceptible.
Become aware of when empathy occurs, it gives the ability to not only understand and be able to help those who do not are going well, but also safeguard the proper feel not depending on it from outside influences, but can exercise freedom internal development and voluntarily an authentic feel, regardless of the environment.
Conscious empathy is what allows the development of what they call humanity without losing the essence itself in that act.
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