Love has become a drama. And why ?.
The misguided and popular idea that people suffer for love is somewhat reluctant. That may not be possible, in fact, it is impossible.
Broken hearts that close to never love again. Suicides that die for love ?.
Love is far from suffering. How can someone who loves suffer?
Some many dogmas disguise their holy martyrs of love as a sign to humanity of what awaits the one they love. The end of Jesus can be seen, it is still proudly exhibited in many temples nailed and bleeding on a cross. He died, but not before suffering, for the love of humanity. A certainly tempting love for anyone. For anyone with any mental disorder.
As long as one continues to believe in the idea that love brings suffering to the person's life, but that it is worth it because it makes him human and blah, blah, the world will be a nightmare for those who want to live with that idea.
Talking about unconditional love is a redundancy, because love in itself is never conditional and if it is, naturally, it is not love.
And it is precisely that pseudo love that causes suffering. But it is simply because it is not loving at all.