Disrupt the (inner) victim.

To have accepted the idea that we are weak and vulnerable, gave way to a deep-rooted impression on the mind what manifest and posses, influencing the feel in  a harmful way. 

This apparent addiction to feel victims of circumstances and / or persons, makes life be heavy and less lighty. 

In an altered state of mind, where it can not "see" clearly is when emerge harmful feelings which  are confused with pleasurable. As is the case of victimhood or morbidity.

A person who says getting the news to realize the horrors that occur while recognizing that attracted to this kind of "entertainment" obviously has a problem and is that her mind associated pleasure with this practice. 

The same goes for people who put themselves in position of victim. What they are doing with this is satisfying theirs need to experience the "pleasure" that gives feel  anothe's guilty. 

Anecdotal: 

Adults were sitting around and talking,  when one of the children appeared inconsolable crying. When they asked to him what had happen,  he said that another child had thrown a stone. Immediately grandmother was and chastened the other child.

Being, after that, on the square with the children, the attacked child cite again the situation and smiling said, "My grandmother gave him a lesson". Then I asked: Do you enjoy watching how scold others? And naturally said yes. Within seconds he realized what had recognized but it was too late. 

Victimism must be recognized as a mental "defect", an imprint that must be eradicated if one wishes to regain good living.

No one who feels victim of circumstances can have no power to change them.

Living a life demanding the attention of others who owe explanations of why they make their lives without considering one is not worthy of anyone.

What is being proposed is the recovery of responsibility and the power wich gives to exercise life with authority and passion. Walk your own path, however, but own.

The easiest way to derail that presence within: At the moment it is recognized that it was activated, firmly say, "I am not a Victim" as many times as necessary to begin to feel relief and the power that go back to oneself . 

Salud.