When guilt is experienced is very likely that the first reaction is the defense, and there are those who say there is no better defense than attack. That's how it is very common to see that when a person experiences guilt her way of expressing the defense is attacking and / or justifying their attitudes blaming others.
Guilt is a harmful and very difficult to eradicate feeling. It could be considered as a ghost feeling, a spectrum that can only exist in the dark, far from consciousness.
If the person experiencing guilt should realize his ignorance, since she is unaware of the real causes, their consequences and development, she would become aware of how foolish the judgment is and the condemnation of attitudes.
Discounting the discomfort caused by the reflex effect of the act of judging and blaming others, being that, at the same moment, that feeling begins to arise within, in the same interior, which reveals that aspect that is being condemned.
And the blame, in short, becomes in that mirror where what is not accepted of oneself is condemned, that condition, aspect or thought, that by that perfectionist-moral obsession, has been hidden deep down where one can't see or recognize.
Guilt is kept alive thanks to that automatic reaction and increasingly perfected to condemn first, then suffer the consequences and finally mount the attack in defense.
If only it were recognized that the necessary knowledge is not available, before issuing a conviction, our life would be greatly relieved. Something as simple as experiencing awareness of one's ignorance can work miracles.
Salud.
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