Can a feeling so harmful, be born of love?.
Obviously, there is a distortion of the idea of what love is.
Maybe love is a feeling too pure and lofty as to be sure what is and how it feel for one person and their limitations, but may know what is not.
Then we take it for granted that those who experience jealousy does it for lack of love and not for his presence.
Dispel the classic idea we have of that jealousy is a sign that we love and are loving us, it is extremely important to recognize that in reality we do not know The love, and the impediment is the false idea that we have of him .
Believe that we are loving is what prevents us from loving, knowing that we ignore what is love really open the door to the unknown and the possibility of experiencing a feeling so sublime as can be love.
Maybe love is a feeling too pure and lofty as to be sure what is and how it feel for one person and their limitations, but may know what is not.
Then we take it for granted that those who experience jealousy does it for lack of love and not for his presence.
Dispel the classic idea we have of that jealousy is a sign that we love and are loving us, it is extremely important to recognize that in reality we do not know The love, and the impediment is the false idea that we have of him .
Believe that we are loving is what prevents us from loving, knowing that we ignore what is love really open the door to the unknown and the possibility of experiencing a feeling so sublime as can be love.
The result of growing up in environments without love, surrounded by people who mistake him for the fear itself that leads them to fear loss causing that relationships and learning occur with this "tone", has resulted in the fact that all perception and feelings experienced by the person, is accompanied by the shadow of fear away from the pure and liberating feeling of love.
Some argue that the opposite of love is not hate but fear. Whereas a person who is afraid is prevented from feeling love, but instead fears chronically and from that fear is that it relates to the environment.
The phenomenon of jealousy was almost catalogued as natural and even, biological, was justified by different theories, but they are far from natural or at least, not necessarily justified by the nature.
Is like saying that we are violent by nature.
Jealousy has a deep root in each and if the idea is to be happy, must be torn off and the only way is to experience love for ourselves and dissolve the idea that we need to be loved to be happy.
There is a saying that goes: "You can not give what you do not have " how much love can give a person who does not love herself?. A person who does not love demands love, and someone who demands that need, paradoxically, repels love.
Nobody likes to be in the presence of those who claim and demanding love.
Jealousy is a disease and should be seen as such. Useless to justify them, or worse, cherish them as something that makes us human sensitive.
Some argue that the opposite of love is not hate but fear. Whereas a person who is afraid is prevented from feeling love, but instead fears chronically and from that fear is that it relates to the environment.
The phenomenon of jealousy was almost catalogued as natural and even, biological, was justified by different theories, but they are far from natural or at least, not necessarily justified by the nature.
Is like saying that we are violent by nature.
Jealousy has a deep root in each and if the idea is to be happy, must be torn off and the only way is to experience love for ourselves and dissolve the idea that we need to be loved to be happy.
There is a saying that goes: "You can not give what you do not have " how much love can give a person who does not love herself?. A person who does not love demands love, and someone who demands that need, paradoxically, repels love.
Nobody likes to be in the presence of those who claim and demanding love.
Jealousy is a disease and should be seen as such. Useless to justify them, or worse, cherish them as something that makes us human sensitive.
Of continue disguising noxious feelings as noble, life will remain tarnished with a mixed of feelings that never carry us to be full and happy.
We know that to look for someone's attention by letting him to know how much others appreciate to us, or forcing our absence (unexplained) with intention to force others to think of us, is not worthy of our being. They are some of the gadgets demeaning and quasi-pathetic to which we resorted in order to provoke jealousy in other for them to "love us."
There is work to be done inside, in private, and to feel that we are worthy of our appreciation and valuation. Embracing our presence, feel the heart and looking insistently love what we are in those moments of solitude and stillness.
Heal jealousy, almost as any disease, demands disciplined and consistent work, which does not allow it spreads easily, taking dominion of feelings.
A resource that may be beneficial in the road to feel love without a specific reason (for nothing), is, take the habit of self-hug. Surround the body with the own arms and feel. It can use the word sincerely, "I love you", "I feel", "I'm alive / a", "thank you", etc..
We know that to look for someone's attention by letting him to know how much others appreciate to us, or forcing our absence (unexplained) with intention to force others to think of us, is not worthy of our being. They are some of the gadgets demeaning and quasi-pathetic to which we resorted in order to provoke jealousy in other for them to "love us."
There is work to be done inside, in private, and to feel that we are worthy of our appreciation and valuation. Embracing our presence, feel the heart and looking insistently love what we are in those moments of solitude and stillness.
Heal jealousy, almost as any disease, demands disciplined and consistent work, which does not allow it spreads easily, taking dominion of feelings.
A resource that may be beneficial in the road to feel love without a specific reason (for nothing), is, take the habit of self-hug. Surround the body with the own arms and feel. It can use the word sincerely, "I love you", "I feel", "I'm alive / a", "thank you", etc..
Nobody taught us how valuable we are to ourselves.
We must remember that we are our best and only company who will be with us all the time in life. Let value our presence so we be able to share but from a state of abundance, fullness.
Salud!.
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