Romanticism, promoted dream.

We will not talk about of the historical origins of Romanticism, nor discuss of the fact that wonderful artistic works was born in the Romantic age. 

Only we will focus on contemporary romanticism seen from an unusual perspective, from its dark side. 

Was talk earlier about the damage caused by social models , the romance aspect is purposely implemented in modern society where media promotion and encouragement of this human aspect is very strong, either by the acceptance that has and profits it generates for the film industry , music, stuffed animals, perfumes, editorials, florists, jewelers, religious temples, party's halls, etc.. or effect that causes constant cyclothymia necessary to sustain society in its current situation, that is, discontent and constant search.

When the romanticism is very marked in people, they become very unstable and extremely sensitive to their environment, and more, to his inner thoughts and ideas formed by their own romanticism.

It is characteristic of the romantic, almost constant state of melancholy, fits of euphoria, exaltation of the beauty and the ugliness, depression and suicidal thoughts, among others.

This is not desirable for anyone, however, a romantic feels pride in their romantic aspects, sensitive and feel more human than others, despite recognizes in himself, that most of his human and heroics acts he makes from a selfish place, waiting for the recognition and admiration in return. If not, usually falling into depression. 

While these features are very marked in some, less so in others, but in general, society is imbued with this feeling of dreamlike, touted as love and which hardly escape some "soul." 

We know that real love is expressed in mysterious ways that arises in circumstances and result in actions that transform, full of happiness and peace. Instead, the Romanticism moves in cycles of plenty and scarcity, light and darkness, extreme happiness and depression, love and betrayal ... 

Sowing the belief of Romanticism as mandatory for those who want to experience the fullness of life is not very healthy, because some people who naturally have resistance to become in romantic and they believe that is the most right way to love, feel limited and they may to believe that their feelings are not genuine because they are not in formats "rosy", accompanied by gifts or "heroically" romantics acts. 

Although, apparently, this article goes against the ideal of life, and possibly, hurts some feelings, is not real intention of causing discomfort, but rather provide another way of seeing that gives a possibility to be authentic in his feel and proceed , whom have a form of expression that is not romantic or does not materialize his feelings in exultant, ornamental or histrionic acts.

Those who retain their humility and innocence should know that they don't need to show affection, for the simple reason that they emanate naturally what they are with all that this implies, and no one can demand to them, acts or proofs of love. 

Everything said in this Article does not have the sense to cancel or suppress romantics acts, but rather recover the genuine and natural that dwells in every person, for each one can express feelings in their own way, without models or preconceptions or pretending to be original or special thus achieving a clean mind dyed-staged of procedure emerged from romance novels. 

If people begin to pay attention to the images that pop into their mind when they think on love or romantic situations, will see clearly that these images are implanted, may even recognize what movie, book or novel come from.

To do not limit love with previous ideas of how it should looks like accord a small mind that wants to experiment it, perhaps, gives some space to appear that what is true, transformative and authentic. Without so many ups and downs, because love is a solid , generous and expansive feeling.

We advocate for a world, less pink, less ideal and more authentic.