Lying is not inevitable, but it hurts.

Lie is instituted in societies that forced the "perfect" human, ie perfect for societies.

Seems not to be possible be truthful and, at the same time, survive to society.

Husbands should lie, employees and bosses must lie, parents and children should lie, politicians, police, students, educators, lawyers, psychologists, marketers, scientists, scientistic, etc.. can not avoid lying, because there is a social character to hold and that comes only with the lie, because otherwise, people would simple people. Lying, as I said, is instituted and is the cornerstone holding to the societies as histrionic hypocrisy situation that ruins the life and health of their inhabitants, and for what?.

The sadness deepens.

Who dares to see the beautiful face of the sadness without sticking to her?.
This feeling so human that, appearing in all of the world's population, is putting at the same level and go equating to each and every one,  placing to them in a deep place in which it is recalled that there is a state where truth takes value.

When this feeling comes through the mind, compressing the chest and bringing forth tears, life changes its hue. The color saturation and flashes in the life of a person, inexplicably, loses its power and beauty in the eyes of a being in the state of sadness.

Jealousy, a symptom that we're Loving?.

Can a feeling so harmful, be born of love?.

Obviously, there is a distortion of the idea of what love is.

Maybe love is a feeling too pure and lofty as to be sure what is and how it feel for one person and their limitations, but may know what is not.

Then we take it for granted that those who experience jealousy does it for lack of love and not for his presence.

Dispel the classic idea we have of that jealousy is a sign that we love and are loving us, it is extremely important to recognize that in reality we do not know The love, and the impediment is the false idea that we have of him .

Believe that we are loving is what prevents us from loving, knowing that we ignore what is love really open the door to the unknown and the possibility of experiencing a feeling so sublime as can be love.

The power that money brings.

There is a strong link, in today's world, between money and power. Now, the power of what?.

Once, I read a tip given by a father to his son and said something like, "from time to time, take a bill from your wallet and looking it intently say: This bill is mine. Thus let it clear which of both is the owner. "

People seem to have lost, after so long, the true sense of the existence of the money that is no longer a means to become an end.

One night we walked with my nine year old niece who had given her for her birthday a bill of fifty. I was surprised when she said, "I wish to have one hundred".

I, who knew she did not have much idea of ​​money, asked her what it was for. And I was not surprised with the response, she just said: "to have one."

So I took the opportunity and made this pose:

Imagine that at the moment you start to feel hungry, you have a hundred but no one will change it for food, what do you do?.

She replied, "I can not even eat because it is toxic."

That is the value of money. None. The money is only worth when you trade it for something. The value is in the people, the important "thing" is people, it is to them to have to assess over your money.

Persistent chronic misanthropy.

The hatred of the human by human is a practical and / or a feeling more common that is believed.

As a sort of fake-humility, there are not few that refer to human beings with a kind of ruthless self-criticism, as a despicable, less intelligent entity, harmful or even inappropriate to live on the planet, because its  quality of highly destructive and apathetic with nature.

An example would be the phrase of Sigmund Freud who would have said something like:

"The clearest proof that there is intelligent life on other planets is they have not yet come to visit us."

If the ideas that arise when we think of man or mankind, are examined surely we will find with a feeling of contempt, one latent and implanted feeling inside, that surfaces at times .
The concept we have, in general, of the human being, is not very encouraging, especially for humans.

Fear and Automatic psychology.

A popular saying goes something like, "The more people know, the more I love my dog." A sad but very popular phrase, both in theory and in practice.

The truth is that hardly anyone really knows someone, instead, it has achieved compliance with  do a biased and thorough psychological analysis of  who is "meant" to know.

Automatic psychology of  recognition is one of the most flawed methods born of the mind as a tool for knowledge, for simple reasons, it hasn't accurate basis or causes certainty thus ensures live in constant fear.

The best way of to choose not to be at peace and being loved, is psychoanalyze everything and everyone, including one's personality.

This mechanism of psychology is not even voluntary, and of course, anyone who discovered the disastrous results it causes, would never choose to practice voluntarily.

It is an automatic mental mechanism available to the fear. Fear is constant vigilance, to guard the ego or personality which feels first divided and then attacked. This is how fear is the watchman of the personality not welfare.

Blame goes to attack.

There is a phrase that says: "In my defenselessness my safety lies."

When guilt is experienced is very likely that the first reaction is the defense, and there are those who say there is no better defense than attack. That's how it is very common to see that when a person experiences guilt her way of expressing the defense is attacking and / or justifying their attitudes blaming others.

Guilt is a harmful and very difficult to eradicate feeling. It could be considered as a ghost feeling, a spectrum that can only exist in the dark, far from consciousness.

If the person experiencing guilt should realize his ignorance, since she is unaware of the real causes, their consequences and development, she would become aware of how foolish the judgment is and the condemnation of attitudes.